I'm feeling down.

topic posted Tue, August 24, 2004 - 6:48 PM by  Dave
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I am a short chubby geek. I am pretty OK with it. But, sometimes, like tonight, I get down about things.

I was treated like I am unattractive. It brings me down. It brings up self-doubt, brings down my self-esteem.

Are there so few women that appreciate cute chubby geek guys with glasses? Even the 5'8", 35yo ones?
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Dave
Tampa Bay Area
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  • Re: I'm feeling down.

    Tue, August 24, 2004 - 7:48 PM
    don't feel down Dave!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

    It's a sad and harsh reality that women are force fed to beleive that the only men worth knowing are the ones that look like the front of muscle and fitness magazine.

    When in actuality the ones REALLY worth knowning are the sweet ones that aren't obsessed with how they look to others and instead are focused on the what actually counts.....who you are on the inside.

    Beauty fades but intelligence, being a genuine person and being REAL are what lasts.

    It sucks. I'm a chubby girl and I have the same issues with people in general.


    Let's just kill everyone there. Now we'll feel better. heehehehehehehehehee

    *hugs*
  • Re: I'm feeling down.

    Tue, August 24, 2004 - 9:16 PM
    You should check out the thread entitled "When did YOU get The Apathy?", as it has some interesting stories from some of us. It might help you feel better ;)

    I practically had no dates or anything throughout highschool, and I was picked on a lot. Classic loner. Life sucked so bad.

    Now I have a beautiful woman to love for the rest of my life who brings me nothing but smiles and laughs. Stick through the shit, and you'll see the light ;)

    Love you with all my heart, Shi-Chan :)
  • Re: I'm feeling down.

    Wed, August 25, 2004 - 5:32 AM
    5'8" and 33 here, man.

    don't sweat it, dude. there are women out there who have very eclectic tastes, trust me. there's someone out there (most likely, many more than just one) who will totally dig you just the way you are. you just gotta work your mojo. convince yourself that you are cool, believe that, and others will too.
    don't let some asswipe "make" you feel any way you don't want to feel. don't give anyone that much control. it's up to you to determine how you feel about yourself, not some no one who doesn't know anything about you.
    rock on with yer bad self!!
    • Re: I'm feeling down.

      Wed, August 25, 2004 - 5:33 AM
      " there are women out there who have very eclectic tastes,"

      and men. and otherlygendered folks, etc. - don't mean to be so hetero-focused, btw.
    • Re: I'm feeling down.

      Wed, August 25, 2004 - 5:45 AM
      Yeah, I find it a fun feeling getting that 'sexy groove' down, even being overweight and not society's vision of attractive. Smile, laugh, be the life of the party. I honestly can't say I've seen a girl who WASN'T attracted to a broad smile and a hearty laugh...

      No... wait... Goths.

      Heheh

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